Reversing or curing Autism

Hubby was never diagnosed he is quirky and I love him to bits, no one now would guess that he  started talking at 3 and that his mum was worried about him.  No one now would guess that he slept very little and that he flapped and spun.  He was accepted as being Richard, his mum sat him down and explained social stuff to him.  His mum encouraged his "obsession" of letters and reading.  He had NO ABA, one primary school did not accept him, the next primary school realised he was bright.....just saying, I believe he is still on the spectrum.  Looking back mil accidentally did everything right.  And looking back at my history I am either boarder line ASD or am on the spectrum.  Is that a bad thing to be different from the norm??? We have things to work on for our son, we love him very much and we will raise him to be a good boy, help him with his weaknesses and encourage his strengths.  This is a whole family who wishes not to be cured or reversed.  Xxxxooooo